A
good therapist is compassionate, warm, caring and committed to truly seeing
and respecting each individual as a unique person and honoring
their individual journey and the wisdom they bring to it. Good
therapy is a collaboration. Utilizing a mind-body-spirit focus on
wellness, what I bring to the work is over 10 years experience as a
therapist, a Psy.D. from Long Island University, extensive training in
numerous different therapeutic approaches (such as Ericksonian
Hypnotherapy, research-based Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Psychodynamic - Horney, Existential and Gestalt
therapies) in numerous settings (hospitals, research teams, the army,
battered women’s shelter, private practice, university). What you
bring is your well-spring of wisdom which lives in your
unconscious/deepest self and your life experience – no one else
has your experience being you! Together we work at your pace and comfort
level to find dependable solutions to bring more joy, peace and love to
your life!
Our
work may focus and flow in many different ways. We may examine the
connections between the past and present. We may concentrate on the
present where an inner-critic places impossible demands on an
imaginary-perfect-self and can be overcome with love and support of the
real-self. The heart of the work we do together may be honoring
previously hidden pain, shame, anger or fear…which transforms into
strength and beauty as we embrace it closely - trusting the deep answers
that will arise spontaneously from within.
As
I listen intently to you, I will help you to hear your deepest voice, to
love who you really are, and to make new choices and/or honor your
existing choices. As we
work, I will share my observations, understandings and ideas. Through it
all, I will be honored to be very much present with you on your
courageous journey. We will likely find hope, laughter, creativity and
joy as you work through the real problems with all the real feelings you
experience .