A
        good therapist is compassionate, warm, caring and committed to truly seeing
        and respecting each individual as a unique person and honoring
        their individual journey and the wisdom they bring to it. Good
        therapy is a collaboration. Utilizing a mind-body-spirit focus on
        wellness, what I bring to the work is over 10 years experience as a
        therapist, a Psy.D. from Long Island University, extensive training in
        numerous different therapeutic approaches (such as Ericksonian
        Hypnotherapy, research-based Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Psychodynamic - Horney, Existential and Gestalt
        therapies) in numerous settings (hospitals, research teams, the army,
        battered women’s shelter, private practice, university). What you
        bring is your well-spring of wisdom which lives in your
        unconscious/deepest self and your life experience – no one else
        has your experience being you! Together we work at your pace and comfort
        level to find dependable solutions to bring more joy, peace and love to
        your life!
         Our
        work may focus and flow in many different ways. We may examine the
        connections between the past and present. We may concentrate on the
        present where an inner-critic places impossible demands on an
        imaginary-perfect-self and can be overcome with love and support of the
        real-self. The heart of the work we do together may be honoring
        previously hidden pain, shame, anger or fear…which transforms into
        strength and beauty as we embrace it closely - trusting the deep answers
        that will arise spontaneously from within. 
        
        
        As
        I listen intently to you, I will help you to hear your deepest voice, to
        love who you really are, and to make new choices and/or honor your
        existing choices.  As we
        work, I will share my observations, understandings and ideas. Through it
        all, I will be honored to be very much present with you on your
        courageous journey. We will likely find hope, laughter, creativity and
        joy as you work through the real problems with all the real feelings you
        experience .